An Unpleasant Rule of Love?

Last night a good friend Sally called me.

She had been regularly dating a wonderful man for about 7 years now. They used to live close to each other but over a year ago she decided to move several hundred miles away for career reasons.

Her beau originally told her that he would be moving up right behind her. They had been together 6 or so years and the relationship was very solid.

Although her beau had a good career, he had large sums of money in bank accounts and free and clear property holdings. Financially he was completely secure.

This fact was considered by Sally as a solid sign that it would be easy for him to keep his word and follow her up to her new location.

Over the next year he made several plans to move up. He even bought a house at one point for them to share. Sally decorated and upgraded the house to their mutual tastes.

He would tell Sally "I'll be up in March", then it was July, then October.

This scenario went on and on, to the disappointment and heartbreak of my friend.

He would come and visit, and Sally would visit him, but he never moved up.

Finally he told Sally that he would need several years to move up, as he wanted to continue his career until he got full retirement benefits where he was working.

He sold the house and told Sally to be patient. In 5 years or so they would be together, he told her.

Sally is a very powerful woman who has an intimate understanding of prosperity and manifestation consciousness. She has been practicing it for many years and has no difficulty manifesting almost whatever she wants or needs in life.

She was bewildered by this situation and couldn't understand why she was unable to manifest the outcome she wanted and desired so much with her beau.

We talked last night and I gave her my understanding.

I told her that manifestation works great on physical things, career and relationship concepts. This has been shown over and over again.

The rub is that it DOES NOT work with any specific individual. In other words, one can manifest money, success and a loving relationship at will.

Here is the rub, you cannot manifest a loving relationship with any SPECIFIC individual. This violates the basic rules of the Universe.

Why?

Because each soul is an individual unit of God and we cannot influence them to do what we want.

Each of us has our path to follow and lessons to learn. By putting our energy into manifesting a reality of "My relationship will work out with this particular person" we are, on a psychic level, attempting to influence their path, beliefs and dreams to fit our wants and needs.

No can do.

If that were the case we would all be constantly bouncing around based on other's desires, rather than our own.

The only thing we can do in that case is to make sure we are true to ourselves around that person, totally caring and honest with them as well as joyous and loving.

Many times they will respond to that, but not always.

When manifesting a perfect relationship for yourself the focus must be on manifesting the relationship itself. Then the law of attraction will bring forth a person who is also looking for the same outcome and is perfectly matched vibrationally with what you are seeking.

It may well be the person you are hoping for.

Then again it may not.

Avoid focusing all your relationship energy and attention on a person who is resisting going that direction with you. By doing so you could easily miss it when that perfect match shows up right in front of you.

That can seem like an unpleasant rule of Love.

In actuality it is perfect, as it allows all of us total freedom.

Ed Osworth